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What to Wear to Your Boudoir Session (Without Buying a Whole New Wardrobe)

Nov 11 2026 | By: Zara Ashby Photography

"What do I wear?" is the second-most-asked question in my studio (right after "Will I look okay?" and yes, you will). Here's my no-stress guide.

Start with what makes you feel good

Forget what you think boudoir is "supposed" to look like. If you feel amazing in it, it'll photograph amazingly. Confidence shows up in every frame.

My favorite outfit ideas

  • A bodysuit. It flatters almost every body type and works for every comfort level.
  • A matching bra and panty set. It's classic for a reason.
  • An oversized sweater or his button-down shirt. It's cozy and effortless, and one of my all-time favorite looks.
  • Your favorite jeans with a bralette. It's casual, fun and very you.
  • Something sheer or lacy. That's for the bold ones, or the ones who want to be.
  • A sentimental piece. Think his jersey, your wedding veil, or the heels you wore on your wedding day.

How many outfits?

Plan on 2–3 for a 45-minute session. If you're booking during Black Friday and get the Extra Time bonus, you can add another look.

Colors that photograph beautifully

Black is always gorgeous in my studio. Jewel tones, blush, cream and red are stunning too. Skip tiny busy prints. Solids and lace read best on camera.

Fit matters more than price

Skip anything too tight that digs in, and anything too big that hides you. If a piece fits well, it doesn't matter whether it cost $15 or $150.

Don't forget the details

  • Hair styled the way you love it (you'll arrive with hair done)
  • Fresh nails (neutral or classic red never fails)
  • Heels, even if you never wear them; they lengthen everything
  • Jewelry you love: earrings, a dainty necklace, your rings
  • Wear loose clothing to the studio so there are no strap or waistband marks

And the wings?

This year every Black Friday booking gets The Wings, my angel wings, as a free bonus. They're dramatic, playful, and SO fun to wear. Trust me on this one.

The best part? You don't have to figure it out alone. Every client gets a custom prep guide and personal help planning her looks before her session.

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— Zara 🖤

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